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Thanks for the good wishes! - Happy's Obsession
or what I do between bouts of Real Life
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Thanks for the good wishes!
I'm feeling better temp wise, down to normal. Still weak and having a hard time eating, but recovery is imminent!

I realize I've been a pretty miserable post-er lately, either whiny or just depressing. I think the reason is that I see LJ as my place to be me, to talk about my issues in a forum where I don't have to worry about someone running to my SO/mother/father/boss about what I've said. I get feedback on personal issues for things I wouldn't otherwise get. Only 1 person on here really knows my SO - that is my sister, and while I've had a few moments of worry when I posted something personal, I know she wouldn't carry tales.

The SO actually freaked out about a FaceBook account I'd set up for him, and spazzed over deleting it, because two people from his work got in trouble about pictures or things they'd posted. He sat me down and talked forcefully about *not* posting *anything* about him on FB. In addition, he was worried because someone might be able to trace back to him through me, and "see all that freaky gay shit you have." I'm sure he wishes I would delete mine, too, but I told him that FB is something people I work with or who know us in real-life read, and I have to censor it. That LJ is my own place, and that he can't be linked.

Of course, it doesn't help that his good friends young daughter somehow found my fic website a few years ago, and asked him why "his" webpage had guys kissing on it.
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positive_pat From: positive_pat Date: November 14th, 2009 10:10 pm (UTC) (Link)
Hey Girl I am so glad you are feeling better now. Just take it easy for a few days until you really get back on your feet.

I am sorry about your SO feeling the way he does. :( But like you said, you are not posting anything that you post in LJ on your Face book so that should make him feel better.

I hope you are able to have a relaxing weekend and get all the rest you need.

Hugs
Pat
1 Voice in the Night or Sing to Me